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How Long Do I Have to Do NO CONTACT BEFORE My EX Misses ME and Comes BACK
How Long Do I Have to Do NO CONTACT BEFORE My EX Misses ME and Comes BACK
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Your EX ONLY FEELS The Pain of LOSING You WHEN it BURNS (Make THEM Feel REGRET)
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Your EX ONLY FEELS The Pain of LOSING You WHEN it BURNS (Make THEM Feel REGRET) Link to Book a 1-on-1 session 👉 calendly.com/breakupcoachtj The 5 Stages Your EX Goes Through: ua-cam.com/video/yt_lvkxYvCA/v-deo.htmlsi=ezF1MclQdd5yJhvX The Best No Contact Framework: ua-cam.com/video/ccm1GH4JvTI/v-deo.html Get a Copy of "Your 30-Day Breakup Journal" now - www.etsy.com/listing/1313481087/your-30-da...
THIS is What YOUR EX FEELS When They REALIZE They HAVE LOST You
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THIS is What YOUR EX FEELS When They REALIZE They HAVE LOST You Link to Book a 1-on-1 session 👉 calendly.com/breakupcoachtj The 5 Stages Your EX Goes Through: ua-cam.com/video/yt_lvkxYvCA/v-deo.htmlsi=ezF1MclQdd5yJhvX The Best No Contact Framework: ua-cam.com/video/ccm1GH4JvTI/v-deo.html Get a Copy of "Your 30-Day Breakup Journal" now - www.etsy.com/listing/1313481087/your-30-day-breakup-journa...
Your EX May SEEM Like They Don't Care EVEN When They Are HURTING
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Your EX May SEEM Like They Don't Care EVEN When They Are HURTING Link to Book a 1-on-1 session 👉 calendly.com/breakupcoachtj The 5 Stages Your EX Goes Through: ua-cam.com/video/yt_lvkxYvCA/v-deo.htmlsi=ezF1MclQdd5yJhvX The Best No Contact Framework: ua-cam.com/video/ccm1GH4JvTI/v-deo.html Get a Copy of "Your 30-Day Breakup Journal" now - www.etsy.com/listing/1313481087/your-30-day-breakup-journ...
NO CONTACT Timeline EXPLAINED (How Long Should it Take to Get BACK Together After a Breakup?)
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NO CONTACT Timeline EXPLAINED (How Long Should it Take to Get BACK Together) Link to Book a 1-on-1 session 👉 calendly.com/breakupcoachtj The 5 Stages Your EX Goes Through: ua-cam.com/video/yt_lvkxYvCA/v-deo.htmlsi=ezF1MclQdd5yJhvX The Best No Contact Framework: ua-cam.com/video/ccm1GH4JvTI/v-deo.html Get a Copy of "Your 30-Day Breakup Journal" now - www.etsy.com/listing/1313481087/your-30-day-b...
IF You're STRUGGLING to GET Your EX BACK STOP And DO This INSTEAD (CORRUPTING Influence of POWER)
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IF You're STRUGGLING to GET Your EX BACK, STOP And DO This INSTEAD Link to Book a 1-on-1 session 👉 calendly.com/breakupcoachtj The 5 Stages Your EX Goes Through: ua-cam.com/video/yt_lvkxYvCA/v-deo.htmlsi=ezF1MclQdd5yJhvX Get a Copy of "Your 30-Day Breakup Journal" now - www.etsy.com/listing/1313481087/your-30-day-breakup-journal-with-prompts?ref=listing_published_alert Letting Go Book: amzn.to/...
How to Make Your EX Fear That They WILL LOSE YOU FOREVER, So THAT They Break NO CONTACT SOONER
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How to Make Your EX Fear That They WILL LOSE YOU FOREVER, So THAT They Break NO CONTACT SOONER Link to Book a 1-on-1 session 👉 calendly.com/breakupcoachtj The 5 Stages Your EX Goes Through: ua-cam.com/video/yt_lvkxYvCA/v-deo.htmlsi=ezF1MclQdd5yJhvX Get a Copy of "Your 30-Day Breakup Journal" now - www.etsy.com/listing/1313481087/your-30-day-breakup-journal-with-prompts?ref=listing_published_ale...
WHY Your EX Can't HELP BUT SECRETLY Watch YOU During NO CONTACT Even WHEN They are SILENT
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WHY Your EX Can't HELP BUT SECRETLY Watch YOU During NO CONTACT Even WHEN They are SILENT
THIS is EXACTLY How to Make Your EX ACTUALLY Find You IRRESISTIBLE (3 Questions YOU MUST Ask)
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THIS is EXACTLY How to Make Your EX ACTUALLY Find You IRRESISTIBLE (3 Questions YOU MUST Ask)
THIS Video is Your SIGN That NO CONTACT IS Working ON YOUR EX EXACTLY AS it SHOULD
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THIS Video is Your SIGN That NO CONTACT IS Working ON YOUR EX EXACTLY AS it SHOULD
When NO CONTACT Isn't WORKING, DO You WALK AWAY From YOUR EX Forever? (The 7TH Fundamental LAW)
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When NO CONTACT Isn't WORKING, DO You WALK AWAY From YOUR EX Forever? (The 7TH Fundamental LAW)
This is EXACTLY WHY Your EX WILL Second GUESS LEAVING You if This Happens
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This is EXACTLY WHY Your EX WILL Second GUESS LEAVING You if This Happens
THEY Find YOU MOST ATTRACTIVE When You Put Yourself on a Pedestal (MASTERING Self-Esteem)
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THEY Find YOU MOST ATTRACTIVE When You Put Yourself on a Pedestal (MASTERING Self-Esteem)
IF You Are Starting to THINK Your EX WILL NEVER Come Back, Then YOU MUST Not Do This
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IF You Are Starting to THINK Your EX WILL NEVER Come Back, Then YOU MUST Not Do This
What ACTUALLY Really MATTERS To YOUR EX | The FIFTH Fundamental Law
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What ACTUALLY Really MATTERS To YOUR EX | The FIFTH Fundamental Law
HOW to Pursue YOUR EX PROPERLY To Get Them Back (WHEN & HOW)
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HOW to Pursue YOUR EX PROPERLY To Get Them Back (WHEN & HOW)
YOUR EX May NOT Care Now BUT They WILL CARE LATER (Be Ready for THE Keith Lee Effect)
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YOUR EX May NOT Care Now BUT They WILL CARE LATER (Be Ready for THE Keith Lee Effect)
EXs Will ONLY Chase and Come Back to YOU IF This Happens | The Fourth Fundamental Law
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EXs Will ONLY Chase and Come Back to YOU IF This Happens | The Fourth Fundamental Law
THESE Are 2 BREAKUP Reasons that NO CONTACT will NEVER FIX (The SAD Truth)‼️
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THESE Are 2 BREAKUP Reasons that NO CONTACT will NEVER FIX (The SAD Truth)‼️
NOTHING Can Keep YOUR EX Away From You if This ONE THING Happens | The Third Fundamental Law
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NOTHING Can Keep YOUR EX Away From You if This ONE THING Happens | The Third Fundamental Law
This is WHY NO CONTACT ALWAYS Works: The Second Fundamental Law
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This is WHY NO CONTACT ALWAYS Works: The Second Fundamental Law
Your EX is NOT Prepared for How BADLY They Will Miss You After NO CONTACT: The FIRST Fundamental LAW
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Your EX is NOT Prepared for How BADLY They Will Miss You After NO CONTACT: The FIRST Fundamental LAW
How to Make Your EX show that they STILL have FEELINGS for you | The 3 Keys to INCREASING Attraction
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How to Make Your EX show that they STILL have FEELINGS for you | The 3 Keys to INCREASING Attraction
THIS is EXACTLY How to Take The Power Back From Your EX (To Feel The Loss, They MUST lose The Power)
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THIS is EXACTLY How to Take The Power Back From Your EX (To Feel The Loss, They MUST lose The Power)
This is What Your EX is Thinking When NO CONTACT is ACTUALLY Working AND They Reach Out to You
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This is What Your EX is Thinking When NO CONTACT is ACTUALLY Working AND They Reach Out to You
This is the EXACT WAY to Treat Your EX to get them Back: The 5 LEVELS of Relationship with Your EX
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This is the EXACT WAY to Treat Your EX to get them Back: The 5 LEVELS of Relationship with Your EX
This WILL ALWAYS Happen First Before YOUR EX Will Come BACK to YOU
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This WILL ALWAYS Happen First Before YOUR EX Will Come BACK to YOU
THIS is WHY NO CONTACT Never Works For You AND WHY You CONSTANTLY STRUGGLE to Get Your EX BACK
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THIS is WHY NO CONTACT Never Works For You AND WHY You CONSTANTLY STRUGGLE to Get Your EX BACK
THIS is a KEY SIGN That Your EX is ACTUALLY HURTING During NO CONTACT, and what to DO ABOUT IT
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THIS is a KEY SIGN That Your EX is ACTUALLY HURTING During NO CONTACT, and what to DO ABOUT IT
This is WHY Some EXs WILL NEVER Come Back: The 3 DEADLY Sins to AVOID During NO CONTACT
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This is WHY Some EXs WILL NEVER Come Back: The 3 DEADLY Sins to AVOID During NO CONTACT

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @marlapina2156
    @marlapina2156 10 годин тому

    What happens when you quit him and block him from Everything and glad about it😂

  • @pauldiaz3458
    @pauldiaz3458 11 годин тому

    What if my Ex Girl blocked me and then sent me a song about resentment the next day., what does that mean and how should I respond?

  • @Mxrow
    @Mxrow 11 годин тому

    Thanka coach blac. You help me feel betrer even though she might not reach out

  • @saring6977
    @saring6977 11 годин тому

    Do you have any videos on nc due to one not being ready for commitment and the other establishing boundaries and walking away? So there was no bad treatment, no anger, only extreme sadness for both people. I told him not to reach out unless something has changed on his end and we've been in NC for 6 weeks now, other than him wishing me hbd on Facebook.... is there any hope?

  • @djjomoody6974
    @djjomoody6974 11 годин тому

    Pedestal

  • @Liamspeaks888
    @Liamspeaks888 11 годин тому

    Just move the fuck on , an ex is an ex for a reason. Who wants to be with someone who doesn't want to talk to you. Healthy relationships communicate no matter what. When someone wants to , they will. Bottom line

  • @Imher30
    @Imher30 12 годин тому

    I’m working on progress

  • @Imher30
    @Imher30 12 годин тому

    3 weeks NC he is now watching my profile

  • @Imher30
    @Imher30 12 годин тому

    Sunday

  • @alfredobermudez6430
    @alfredobermudez6430 12 годин тому

    Batman embrassed the fear

  • @LeticiaCustodioMregalote
    @LeticiaCustodioMregalote 13 годин тому

    thank you it helped a lot

  • @JessicaLugo-mj6ec
    @JessicaLugo-mj6ec 14 годин тому

    He told me he got tired of my 💩. I did NOT give him 💩 that just broke my heart. He is an awful person.

  • @JessicaLugo-mj6ec
    @JessicaLugo-mj6ec 14 годин тому

    My ex immediately after dumping me felt the need to hurt me even more and tell me a week after that he found someone better than me. Just a low human. Low. He wanted to see me destroyed but no. It won't happen.

  • @AuritaWatson
    @AuritaWatson 14 годин тому

    I’m Married my husband cheated and is dating everyone he don’t call me or noting having tried to file for a divorce or nothing

  • @MichaelHenryGomes1
    @MichaelHenryGomes1 14 годин тому

    Love coach blac

  • @lucymartin6579
    @lucymartin6579 16 годин тому

    After 8 years together, he suddenly started to get annoyed with me over tiny things within a day or two of leaving for his job's training. We got into an argument over something that would’ve normally been small but he decided to hang up on me , block me and it’s been 8 days without any contact. I’ll nvr respect a man who can be cold enough to leave me wondering what’s going on. I’m done and hope he has the same strength he made me have when he decided to do this.

  • @southbank1973
    @southbank1973 19 годин тому

    I did this, exactly what @blacademic said after a bit more than 4 months no contact. I noticed she unblocked me after 3 months, and posted some kind of subliminal message directed to me. I did not react for one month. So I reached out, saying how are you ? She replied very politely, asking how I was doing ? I replied back 3 hours later, she replied instantly saying she was happy I was doing well. And I ended the conversation there very casually. It was 3 days ago, now what ? Should I wait for her to reach out ? To put in context, she is definitely avoidant and we were in a 10 years one and off relationship

  • @nickyj2657
    @nickyj2657 19 годин тому

    She was cold for months when broke up a year ago, then she was quite friendly and now she gone cold and dismissive again. Why?

  • @DAVECRESTMEDIA
    @DAVECRESTMEDIA 19 годин тому

    My ex called to wish me Happy Father’s Day Made me break my NC but I kept the call very short and simple and left it at 1:00mins

  • @IsaacVillalobosbounvassana
    @IsaacVillalobosbounvassana 19 годин тому

    I need help I don't know what to do just because I was the one who left her even though I love her just because she would get to overly jealous and hurt me and herself ans would limit me to things. I leet her although I still love her and I don't want to feel this way anymore bc I checked and she already moved on to sm1 else when I was leaving so she could stop hurting

  • @easypeasytips8
    @easypeasytips8 20 годин тому

    Hey Coach, Thanks for the helpful video. My ex and I recently broke up after 16 months together, and I'm really struggling with it. We're both 30, and she has a child, which I was fine with, but things got tough after I lost two jobs and became needy. Despite trying to give her space, she started ignoring me and eventually unfollowed me on social media. We had a talk recently, and she said she needs time to sort things out in her life. So we broke up. I still love her and believe we can work things out. I've been focusing on improving myself and plan to reach out again in early August to see if she's interested in joining me on a trip to Rome that I had planned for her birthday. Should I wait five to six weeks before reaching out again? Your advice would be appreciated. Thanks, Felipe

  • @tiayvette2048
    @tiayvette2048 20 годин тому

    I do no contact but unfortunately break it when I see something cool and send it that I know he likes. Only to get a thumbs up. I am trying no contact again and praying it works this time

  • @os3688
    @os3688 20 годин тому

    She told me she wants absolutely nothing to do with me and all I did was hit her up a few times trying to resolve some small issues lmao. She’s actually out of her bird. Not my problem! Seee yaaaa

  • @DuaneCarltonMerrittmusic
    @DuaneCarltonMerrittmusic 20 годин тому

    Amazing advice

  • @litoperuchan
    @litoperuchan 21 годину тому

    Coach; I was in a long distance relationship (Im 40, she is 34) where we made wedding plans and even talked about having baby since she never been married or have kids. We had an argument about she lying about her working with her ex even though she swear she has no feelings for him. She said she was afraid to tell me about this. She cried and told me I would never forgive her or move past this. I was hurt, but I reassured her we could work through anything together. Two days later, she told me she was not feeling good and that she needed time to fix herself. Im destroyed and trying to do no contact, but I dont know what to do. It's only been a couple of days, but I do not want to push her away. Thinking about our plans being destroyed is the more painful part of all this. She still has my sweet comments on her social media, and she still sees and liked my story on Instagram. As silly as this sounds, she is still sending me lives on a phone game we used to play together. Im so confused and want to know what to do. Before we stopped talking, we had plans to meet in September. Should I still travel and try to get closure, someone please help me.😢😢😢

  • @michaelcolledge3721
    @michaelcolledge3721 22 години тому

    What about if they have had enough asking u yo change but u thought u couldn't then when you do they want to move out and are going i just hope in future sge sees the chnage b4 she moves on she has told me to move on but i cant till i no she has

  • @cocopoulin936
    @cocopoulin936 22 години тому

    the no contact and detach is just so hard , going to bed and waking up is the hardest Fuck... your words alway calm my heart a bit . thank you man

  • @CatwalkPurz
    @CatwalkPurz 22 години тому

    Best human dynamics understanding of relationships and break-ups! Thank you so much!

  • @dmitryisaev5955
    @dmitryisaev5955 22 години тому

    It is no contact. So you can’t tell…

  • @kashmirirose3733
    @kashmirirose3733 23 години тому

    The way I've always understood it is: once you've broken up, anything goes.

  • @Naarvana
    @Naarvana 23 години тому

    What if they act this way but not in contact with you ?

  • @lorenzaicha
    @lorenzaicha День тому

    My ex, the dumper, reaches out daily texting me questions about different minor things. How could i know if he interested about me or about those things?

  • @williesanders9473
    @williesanders9473 День тому

    We have kids so I have to have contact

  • @Dayyummm-
    @Dayyummm- День тому

    Because no contact is BS if you want someone back. No contact helps you both move on, not get anyone back. No contact is a trick to help you heal, not to make someone want to rekindle.

  • @kayesacliff900
    @kayesacliff900 День тому

    if she is GONE she is for real gone., better rebuild yourself before jumping into another relationship!

  • @juliangrandpiano
    @juliangrandpiano День тому

    How does mental health go into the mix here?

  • @andrewdaugherty857
    @andrewdaugherty857 День тому

    June 29 will be 90 days...struggling...ive read all the books you've suggested and a couple more ...ive also healed my childhood ptsd....still miss her everyday ...doubtful she'll ever reach out to me again

  • @husnaserally6213
    @husnaserally6213 День тому

    U r vry rite...fanx u ...so many people don't know tht ..

  • @adrury65
    @adrury65 День тому

    I got cheated on then dumped, so i left the country, went to thailand for a month, then came home to my own country after 4 years away. I met her 2 weeks after the breakup to mend things before we never saw eachother again, as i was leaving the next day. She cried, said she loved me, we slept together then i left. She watches all my stories and reached out once to ask home home was. I replied its been awesome, and i havent heard from her since. Now its been 5 months. I know we will never get back together as ill never take a cheater back, amd we live across the ocean but i suppose i want to know that she regrets her decision

  • @LexiimaWriter
    @LexiimaWriter День тому

    Doesn't make allot of sense. But ok

  • @peterbennpan7288
    @peterbennpan7288 День тому

    With my past 13 year relationship there was so many people getting involved on her side and for those 13 years I brought her 2 kids up as my own and even called me Dad! 5 weeks ago she was caught cheating she back fired it on me made me to be in the wrong made out I was some weirdo and now they have all turned on me. Even the kids. I'm not perfect but how can people be so evil after I gave them so much?

  • @goldy140
    @goldy140 День тому

    My ex bf is FA, Im AP. We loved since 1 & a half yrs with ups & downs. He goes hot & cold. In short after our 2nd breakup ,I went NC with pain. Even he said he is done, not to msg or love him. Within 1 month he came back with regret & love. But I was not 100% healed, but gradually I showed my love too. He spoke to me for other things ,celebrated my bday in November . Checking my details on social media. But we didnt msg, chat for fear, so in December for a quote I shared he misunderstood I ended our love, rejected him. So he started a rebound following day. Then I explained & went NC. Within 1 month he started to reach indirectly , he came to see me to my work plc. Then after 3 months of NC I msgd him on his bday (it was bit vulnerable 1) , sent him a gift this month bcos he came in April , bcos he is a FA. But he didnt reply or chat yet. Have I done a mistake by breaking NC? Will I lose him 4ever as I broke NC? :( He doesnt want me to move on from him, but he is silent since December , using a new WA secretly too since January . I cant see anything of him now :( Im doing NC again since that day. Also building up my life to move on somehow. But still Im not over with him or healed from my pain :(

  • @LiszFlorida
    @LiszFlorida День тому

    I just can't stop thanking you enough Dr OLUWASEUN or bringing back my lover to me..... really appreciate sir❤

  • @LiszFlorida
    @LiszFlorida День тому

    I just can't stop thanking you enough Dr OLUWASEUN or bringing back my lover to me..... really appreciate sir❤

  • @Mr.Lorenzo_Rhino
    @Mr.Lorenzo_Rhino День тому

    Dude' are you speaking to females or is this for men, you need to be more on point! Your drifting so far away from the topic it's almost like your using some substance (weed or alcohol) and this is not a good to pass on information or knowledge. 😂😅

  • @KaiaWebster-yk2sh
    @KaiaWebster-yk2sh День тому

    I don't really know how to thank you Dr OLUWASEUN for your great spell, you're great at your work I thank you for bringing my lover back with your love spell🥹😇

  • @KaiaWebster-yk2sh
    @KaiaWebster-yk2sh День тому

    I don't really know how to thank you Dr OLUWASEUN for your great spell, you're great at your work I thank you for bringing my lover back with your love spell🥹😇

  • @GrannyMoi
    @GrannyMoi День тому

    Dr Oluwaseun help me with the love spell and my Husband returned home, my home is so peaceful🥹😇❤️

    • @GrannyMoi
      @GrannyMoi День тому

      He’s on Facebook page….

  • @GrannyMoi
    @GrannyMoi День тому

    Dr Oluwaseun help me with the love spell and my Husband returned home, my home is so peaceful🥹😇❤️

  • @GrannyMoi
    @GrannyMoi День тому

    Dr Oluwaseun help me with the love spell and my Husband returned home, my home is so peaceful🥹😇❤️

    • @GrannyMoi
      @GrannyMoi День тому

      He’s on Facebook page…